Yessss! Indeed spiritual sex is a thing! In my previous blog post, “The Spirituality in Sexuality,”, we connected the dots between two parts of our journey that most our lives, we have been taught are completely separate. We dispelled this myth, as we blew it wide open with insight! We discussed trauma and healing to our body’s sexual energy centers. We also talked about the throws of choking our sexuality and how to be more authentic in our expression. If you haven’t read it, you may consider going back to my November 30th post to recap before reading any further.
That being said, I definitely wanted to deliver a part “dos” after all of the feedback and interest I received, so here we are to add some enlightening and perhaps fascinating details to our Spiritual-Sexual conversation! Oo la la!
Sex is normal (DUH!), the desire for intimacy is normal and happens to be a GINORMOUS part of how we function in our human existence. However, contrary to human expression, casualty of sex just doesn’t exist. I know we think cut buddies, one night stands and selecting casual partners without hesitation are a means to get a fix, literally…but on an energetic level, it doesn’t exist, it is unrealistic + quite frankly, impossible. Any time we are intimate with a new partner, unbeknownst to human perception, we are recipients of what I call, their double J. We absorb their joy and their junk, their positivity and their negativity. There is a subtle, sometimes not so subtle - energy exchange that occurs from intercourse that mingles both person’s energy and each subsequent time we are intimate, we take on more of their energy as our own, also leaving part of our own in theirs. With every sexual encounter, we have to ask ourselves, is this exchange of love, sexual healing, energizing and positivity? or is it draining, do I feel dumped on, do I feel my life force has been sucked out of me?
You see, our individual auric/etheric or energy fields extend and surround, in most cases, at least 3 feet from our physical bodies, sometimes larger depending on how expanded we are. Every partner we have, even the ones we deem as meaningless, we are merging our auric fields with theirs, forming individual energy cords with each partner every time we have sex. WOAH! This means that their distresses, thoughts, fractured or unhealthy thought patterns become impressions in our aura, until they are cleansed and/or energy ties are cut with the partner or partners. Women often experience evidence of this through imbalances in feelings of attachment after sex and both men and women experience evidence of this after ending relationships with lovers we have had continual sexual relations with. It often manifest as heart break and likelihood that we double back, only to regret it!
Many of us walk around with these sexual encounter debris in our auric fields without knowing. If you don’t know, now you know - as Biggie says. And now that you know, what can be done about it? There are many ways we can balance and cleanse our auras so we aren’t walking around with these energetic body STE’s - Sexually Transmitted Energies! Let’s discuss ways to cut energy cords and cleanse your aura below:
Meditation, which is a practice that strengthens the auric field and fills in any fractures or breaks that exist in one’s auric field.
Aura cleansing and balancing with a knowledgable energy healer. This is one of the best ways in my opinion, as energy healers often have spiritual sight and intuitively see + feel things we may not feel or see from a natural perspective.
H2O! Yep, water offers emotional and energetic clearing so taking a bath with dead sea salt can help with the release of stuck lower energy from the body, as sea salt neutralizes positive and negative ions.
Forgiveness is an awesome way to cut energy cords with past partners, especially ones we’ve had multiple sexual encounters with and/or have hurt us. Forgiveness releases stagnant energy from our bodies and naturally cuts the cord existing between two people.
Prayer and intention. Focusing on the release of all negative sexual attachments and cleansing from one’s sexual past can be beneficial along with any of the other ways mentioned.
Are you thinking what happens when you have formed a sexual energy exchange in a healthy, meaningful relationship? The dope news is if two partners are happy, healthy and well balanced emotionally and spiritually, what I call an “even energy exchange'“ occurs where both partner’s auric field can be strengthened with divine love and enlightenment. Thats what you call sexual healing! And if you wish to be a sexual healer, make sure you are well and whole on all levels before intertwining your energetic field with your partner’s! Be aware of the partners that you choose, and the energy you willingly mingle through sexual encounters, with your own.
And about SEX MAGIC, ya’ll coming back for Part III or nah? Cause the way these topics are set up, wheeew, sex magic is a whole JAWN by itself and I want to ensure my readers get all the juicy deets, but just not in an overwhelming way! I know ya’ll want this work, I promise sex magic is coming up next and you will be READY to manifest some magical shxt with sex!
In the meantime, if you haven’t already cleansed your auric field of STE’s and this article resonated with you, I encourage you to try one or some clearing methods. Remember, to be kind and gentle with yourself. This is never a place for judgement. We all have a past, but most importantly is “the now” and when you know better, you make changes with the intention to be the healthiest, most-healed and aware version of you, that you can be.
I love you immensely for caring for yourself and thank you for taking the time to share this space with me! Leave a comment, like this post or if you are feeling shy, send me an email or personal message!
Light & well-being,
Shina